Get SF Weekly Newsletters

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Too $hort Retires His Player Card on VH1's Couples Therapy

Posted By on Thu, Nov 15, 2012 at 10:00 AM

click to enlarge Too $hort and Monica Payne. - MONICA-PAYNE.COM
  • Too $hort and Monica Payne.

After seven weeks of sifting through the eye-rolling antics of teenager Courtney Stodden and her 52-year-old husband Doug Hutchison on VH1's Couples Therapy just in order to get two-minute glimpses of the far more genuine explorations of Oakland-reared rapper Too $hort (aka Todd Shaw) and his on-again, off-again girlfriend Monica Payne, the latest episode finally centered on our rap hero and the woman he wants to call his own.

It was a shock to see $hort on this show at all, since he's spent the past quarter-century perfecting the image of a callous player, declaring the lifestyle with album titles like Born to Mack, $horty the Pimp, and Married to the Game. But at age 45 (and following an eye-opening Internet scandal earlier this year), he feels it's "time to man up," as he tells the program's counselor Dr. Jenn Berman, and put his player card down for Payne.

See Also:

* What The Hell Is Too $hort Doing on VH1's Couples Therapy?

* The New Too $hort: Oakland Rapper Reconsiders Image After Scandal

* Watch: E-40 and Too $hort Pretend They're Insensitive Men in 'Dump Truck'

The positive impact of this therapy process on $hort is palpable, because he didn't start it as a fully willing participant. In one of their two-minute cameos a few episodes back, he tells Payne that they're simply there to explore how to have healthy relationships in general, and that she shouldn't expect him to sell her dreams and be with only her after it's over. But on last week's show, a change in motion began to appear. He thinks the age gap between Stodden and Hutchison is as creepy as everyone else there does, but he tells Payne that watching them makes him realize how he must come off to others as a 45-year-old man going out to dinner with 19-year-olds. He doesn't like how it looks. By this eighth episode, he has appeared to abandon his fear of committing to her altogether. They're given time for a one-on-one date, so they take what ends up being a really romantic gondola in Redondo Beach ("Gondola Amore"). In the exchange that follows, his change and focus is evident; he wants to spend his life with this woman. When he tells her that he isn't running game, his happiness at being unguarded (perhaps for the first time) and letting go of his worries is visible. It's a very brave moment to be captured on television.
Moving forward, it will be compelling to see how Todd Shaw manages his personal life versus his Too $hort persona and how it might reflect his artistry. He may be growing up and settling down, but he's also growing the biggest set of balls right now, bitch!

-- @teemoney415

  • Pin It

Tags: , , , ,

About The Author

Tamara Palmer


Subscribe to this thread:

Add a comment

Popular Stories

  1. Most Popular Stories
  2. Stories You Missed

Like us on Facebook


  • clipping at Brava Theater Sept. 11
    Sub Pop recording artists 'clipping.' brought their brand of noise-driven experimental hip hop to the closing night of 2016's San Francisco Electronic Music Fest this past Sunday. The packed Brava Theater hosted an initially seated crowd that ended the night jumping and dancing against the front of the stage. The trio performed a set focused on their recently released Sci-Fi Horror concept album, 'Splendor & Misery', then delved into their dancier and more aggressive back catalogue, and recent single 'Wriggle'. Opening performances included local experimental electronic duo 'Tujurikkuja' and computer music artist 'Madalyn Merkey.'"