When we say "we", we mean us-- Sarah Matsui, Thao P Nguyen, and Kenny You-- and our experiences as Asian Americans. What is not ok for us to talk about? Just death, sex, feelings, appropriation, "pursuing your passion"-- you know, the little things. In mainstream media, Asian Americans are often presented as caricatures. And in our families, like in many families, there are unspoken rules around what can and cannot be talked about.
