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Dining, Social Grace

Piercing Questions

Dear Social Grace, The man I love has some facial piercings, which I think look great on him, but I think he should remove them when we go somewhere that is a "dress-up" place or to a wedding. I say…
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Dining, Social Grace

Social Grace

Dear Social Grace, I recently attended a private party at which there was an open bar with a bartender mixing drinks for the guests. As no money is changing hands, how much am I required to tip this bartender? P.S.A.…
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Dining, Social Grace

Modern Manners

What is etiquette? I think many people who cringe at the word have been the victims of etiquette used as a weapon, which is antithetical to its true purpose. The person who belittles you for using the wrong utensil, saying…
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