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Spent and Presented

Ain't no party like a Rumpus party because a Rumpus party has your literary and it has your sexy; at The Rumpus, these two are built into each other. Longtime columnist Antonia Crane celebrates the release of her memoir,…
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SF Weekly Letters February 26-March 4, 2014

A Failing Grade Reader points out it's not the teachers' fault: And that is why the public must honor these pensions . It is not the average teachers' fault that these cretins of capitalism…
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SF Weekly Letters

Blog Comments of the Week Person featured in a blog post responds: Wow! Thanks, Anna Pulley, for writing this blog post . I'm thrilled and honored to even be mentioned…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist LinkedIn Can Be Useful Outside the Job Search

LinkedIn Can Be Useful Outside the Job Search

I'm one of the few lucky people who has a steady job, one that I don't plan on leaving for a while, barring something catastrophic happening. Meanwhile, I keep getting LinkedIn requests to "connect" to people, usually those I don't…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist So Your Boyfriend Still Has Photos of Him and His Ex on Facebook -- Deal With It

So Your Boyfriend Still Has Photos of Him and His Ex on Facebook -- Deal With It

I've been dating a guy for a little more than a month now, and he still has quite a few pictures on his Facebook profile of his last girlfriend, like cuddly, coupley pictures. I'd estimate that about half of his…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist You're Not a Cyberstalker -- Here's How to Be

You're Not a Cyberstalker -- Here's How to Be

I have read all this stuff about stalkers regarding Facebook. If someone makes you a Facebook friend they are offering you an invitation to view their activity on this social network. I'm not really a big Facebook person but I…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist How Not to Kill Your Roommate Over Her Lovey-Dovey Skype Sessions

How Not to Kill Your Roommate Over Her Lovey-Dovey Skype Sessions

Normal 0 0 1 456 2600 21 5 3192 11.1539 0 0 0 I'm a freshman in college, staying in the dorms. My roommate and I get along pretty well for the most part, except when it comes to…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist So You're Famous and You're Single -- It's Still OK to Date Online

So You're Famous and You're Single -- It's Still OK to Date Online

I'm recently single. Given that I run a pretty successful website and I've got a pretty recognizable face around town, does it make sense for me to do online dating? It seems like that's what people are doing these days.…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist You Look Nothing Like Your Online Dating Photo

You Look Nothing Like Your Online Dating Photo

Should you ever confront a person who looks nothing like their online dating pictures or who has otherwise distorted the kind of person they are? This has happened to me twice on recent dates, and both times I've cut…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Why You Should Fake It on Facebook

Why You Should Fake It on Facebook

I went out on a first date with a girl who is also a recently added Facebook friend. During dinner she kept bringing up things I had already read about on FB, but I lied and pretended like I didn't…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Stalk That Co-Worker on Twitter -- Then Cover Your Tracks

Stalk That Co-Worker on Twitter -- Then Cover Your Tracks

Let's say I have a coworker/dude who I am sort of (okay totally) stalking. I don't really have to "stalk" because we have each other's numbers and e-mails and we text each other occasionally, if not often. But I still…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Instant Messaging Has No Rules -- So Follow Your Own

Instant Messaging Has No Rules -- So Follow Your Own

Have you covered IM etiquette? How many times can you IM someone with no response before you need to leave them alone? When is it okay to IM someone who has the "busy" flag up? Also, I have people…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Online Dating: Ladies, You Have the Right to Remain Silent

Online Dating: Ladies, You Have the Right to Remain Silent

A guy wrote to me on OkCupid recently. He was nice, but not really my style, so I didn't write back. He then wrote again, giving me shit for not responding to his first message. This solidified my decision to…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Post-Hookup Text Etiquette

Post-Hookup Text Etiquette

I hooked up with a girl a few months back. I had fun, but I assumed we'd never see each other again, so didn't respond to her text the next day. Well, turns out I did run into her,…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Peter Orner Jarringly Exposes the Tragedy of Ordinary Life in <i>Love and Shame and Love</i>

Peter Orner Jarringly Exposes the Tragedy of Ordinary Life in Love and Shame and Love

I usually write in all my books, but couldn't bring myself to do so in Peter Orner's Love and Shame and Love. It seemed wrong somehow, like taking a Sharpie to someone's family photo album. Tightly crafted in language and…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist How To Deal With Break-Ups Gracefully In the Digital Age

How To Deal With Break-Ups Gracefully In the Digital Age

Anna, Your previous advice regarding approaching ladies the right way online landed me a really fun date that turned into about 15 more, but now that we've had an argument or two I'm thinking maybe I should start over.…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist When It's Okay to Correct Grammar Online

When It's Okay to Correct Grammar Online

Is it ever not considered rude to correct someone's grammar and spelling? Not in a business setting or anything, but will I come off as a dick for pointing out mistakes in an an e-mail, chat, or Facebook comment? Some…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Tweet Your "Friends" Right

Tweet Your "Friends" Right

I have a question. Does being a "friend" online really require any social obligations or even just courtesies? I was recently feeling overwhelmed with spending too much time online, to the point that it interfered with my productivity in "real"…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist How to Navigate Crazy Co-workers Online

How to Navigate Crazy Co-workers Online

I mistakenly added some backstabbing beeyatches from my job as friends on my Facebook page. One eased my burden by defriending me (very unceremoniously, I may add) and I have now defriended AND blocked all three, the last two by…
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Culture, The Exhibitionist Social Media Self-Promotion: The Only Advice You Need

Social Media Self-Promotion: The Only Advice You Need

Dear Anna, I am troubled. I am an aspiring writer who feels overwhelmed by the amount of information online on how to become successful at this craft. I have been trying to promote my work via Facebook and Twitter, but…
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